Angry Little Minds Are Pack Animals

by Chuck Westbrook on August 21, 2009

The small and angry mind is fragile, the mere possibility of being wrong sends it into a sort of shock, a feverish defensiveness and a snarling reaction to attack whatever approaches, unable to discern from friend or foe, quivering and frantic like a stupid wild animal.

But in another setting, one of perceived strength, the same simpleton grows bold and aggressive. It will press an attack because it craves to kill, to dominate and to consume. Looking for weakness, compulsively seeking a chance to fight and to win and become validated.

Unpopular opinions press the point. The weak minded person and the majority they belong to is either wrong or are about to become the conquering predator. Adrenaline and a thrill are guaranteed either way. The fear of being proven wrong is illusory anyway because there’s strength in numbers. The momentary sting of being made a fool, a likely possibility through a clever or forceful retort, can be quickly washed away through mob-frenzied volume and consensus of opinion.

Angry little minds are fragile combatants with a blood-thirst. Dialog means nothing. Arguments hold no weight. Their game is about numbers and validation and crushing those who would introduce dissonance, who would induce actual thinking. Thinking that would threaten to expose them as enemies of thought or, worse still in their minds, as wrong.

To the 21,000 people who have joined the angry throng on Facebook aimed at Mr. John Mackey, I ask–What is the goal?

The best hope I can see for justifying this attack seems to be a highly improbable scenario in which Mr. Mackey’s article was a malicious attempt at subverting that which he knows to be right and good. That seems to be the implication actually–that John Mackey is evil through some straw-man combination of wanting sick people to die and worshiping his own ability to hoard money.

More likely is that he’s made them angry because they disagree with him, and their actions are motivated more by anger than they are by any rational impulse. To be more specific, they are angry with him because his opinion is unpopular; those with well-reasoned disagreements rarely react with anger when faced with the same.

In this case, the goal is to get him to shut up and go away. Or maybe to hurt him and his business financially, teaching him a lesson about opening his stupid mouth to say something that might change minds (what a wicked thing to do). In short, to squelch him.

Once the shouting begins, he’ll be on the losing side, at least of the shouting match. For that 21,000, now comes the adrenaline rush, the fray, a series of increasingly bold salvos against Mr. Mackey, and they can be on the winning side, vicariously or directly asserting superiority by virtue of volume.

As creatures of limited knowledge, there is no path we can take to never be wrong. It is possible, however, to see our errors before making them, to learn something without having to plow waist-deep into the consequences of false beliefs. The dissenting opinion is the essence of that uniquely human faculty, and when offered sincerely and in good faith, it should be celebrated unconditionally.

Whether Mr. Mackey’s facts and conclusions are sound is entirely beside the point of this post, but it should be the sole concern of these 21,000. If they have been rattled by a dissenting opinion, they should be trying to specifically illuminate where he’s made mistakes or, just maybe, insights in his arguments. And they should probably take great pains to avoid sloshing their emotions around like mud–it makes it harder to see good points.

Instead, the majority of this group is rattling their sabers, irate not because he’s done something unethical but because he’s made an argument that leads to a conclusion they don’t like.

Whatever Mr. Mackey may have gotten wrong concerning healthcare, he is on the right side of a more fundamental and broader division of people. There are those like Mr. Mackey who attempt through discourse to arrive at a common understanding, and there are the angry little minds who shut their eyes, clench their fists, and collectively try to shout out, stomp out, and block out the opposition while muttering, “It doesn’t matter who is right, as long as it’s us.”

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Pick Your Problems

by Chuck Westbrook on April 8, 2009

Tweet version: “Challenges don’t always need a head-on response. A work-around is often smarter. Should you fix the printer now or just go to the library?

Stuff is going to get in the way. No matter what you’re doing, you will run into obstacles. Our first reaction is to attack the problem and move on, but it’s often better just to go around.

If the printer breaks while you’re in the zone, don’t let that derail you. Just go to the library or Kinko’s and fix it when things are slower.

Make sure you pick your problems. Don’t let it happen the other way around.

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Getting Attention Is a Stupid Business Plan

by Chuck Westbrook on April 7, 2009

Tweet version: “Starting a business is about providing value and making money. It’s not about blog readers, Twitter followers, or impressing friends.”

These words from Shakespeare describe many who claim the title of ‘entrepreneur.’

“…A walking shadow, a poor player
That struts and frets his hour upon the stage
And then is heard no more: it is a tale
Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury,
Signifying nothing.”
-Macbeth

They can be spotted at networking events, at parties, and online making lot of commotion and doing some serious talking about themselves and their experiences and ideas. But there’s little to no real business happening. The actions and results are lacking. It’s like playing pretend at entrepreneurship.

Business is about earning a living and adding value to the world and the people in it. It’s not about cocktail chatter or friends and followers, as fun as that can be.

Here’s the real problem. Some have latched on to this stuff as a plan, as a full-time occupation. They blog, tweet, email, network, scheme, and dream so that the attention comes pouring in.

There’s a market for sound and fury. Plenty of people will gladly trade some of yours for some of theirs. If that’s the currency you’re after, be advised: It has a lousy exchange rate.

Image by theparadigmshifter.

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Blog Applause

by Chuck Westbrook on April 3, 2009

Tweet version: “We need a ‘blog applause’ widget. It’d let people express their appreciation in a simple and authentic way and reduce comment noise.”

Do you ever read a post, enjoy it, and then move on without leaving a comment? I do it all the time.

I don’t like commenting unless I have something to say that adds some value. Sometimes I’ll find a way to make, “Great post!” sound interesting, and other times I’ll send an email. Really though, I just want to have a quick and simple way to let the person know that requires little time and no thought.

So we need a blog applause widget. It’d be a simple button, an icon of clapping hands or something. You click it and the author would get a little notice that said, “Nice work. You’ve got 20 people clapping for this one.”

I know there’s stuff out there that’s kind of like this. But what I want is this. Exactly this. No rating system. No sharing. No bookmarking. No submitting. No logging in.

I mash a button. The author knows someone appreciated the post. End of transaction.

**Humorous (to me) Addendum**

My friend Ashley just IMed me seconds after I posted this:

Question – how do I tell you I agree with your blog applause button without said blog applause button?

I responded:

haha
great point
i kind of just doomed my blog to never get encouraging comments, didn’t i?

So just so there’s no misunderstanding, I like getting those comments especially compared to the alternative of crickets chirping. It helps me know people like what I’m doing. When I get my applause widget, then you can stop leaving them. Deal?

Image by Multiple Fragments of Tissue.

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Stuck? Confused? A Lesson From Descartes

by Chuck Westbrook on April 2, 2009

Tweet version: “If you’re stuck or confused, back up to what you’re absolutely certain about. Use that as a foundation. Descartes was an extreme example.”

“I think therefore I am.” You know the quote. Do you know the context? It might help you the next time you get stuck.

The author, Descartes, was a philosopher and mathematician. He’s considered to be the first modern philosopher, the father of the discipline and an overall important guy.

Descartes Gets Himself Stuck

His most important philosophical work was to lock himself in a cabin and doubt everything. He reasoned that if he could find something that was absolutely trustworthy, he could build off of that. So he started meditating to see what was beyond all doubt.

The big problem was the possibility that all of his experiences might be a dream or illusion. If Descartes was crazy or somehow having his thoughts manipulated, then what could he really be sure of?  I imagine this was a stressful exercise for Descartes, bordering on mentally unsafe and unhealthy. He had found a way to be maximally unsure, perfectly stuck.

How He Got Out

I’m not sure how long he was stuck there, but he finally found a way out. Paraphrasing: “Even if all of my thoughts are completely crazy, I’m at least having thoughts. So I must exist. I know for certain and beyond any conceivable possibility for being wrong that I exist as a thinking thing.” To quote it: “Cogito Ergo Sum” or “I think, therefore I am.” He uses that to get through the rest of his confusion, one step at a time.

The Takeaway

No matter how stuck or confused you are, as long as you’re not worried that your entire life is an illusion, you’re better off than Descartes. You can use his same basic trick.

What’s giving you trouble? Back up and list everything about the situation that you are 100% about. Go from there.

Image by StarbuckGuy.

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Failure Comes in Two Flavors

by Chuck Westbrook on April 1, 2009

When you take a risk, by definition, there’s a chance you will fail. From trying to train for a marathon to asking someone on a date to making a phone call. There are going to be times when it doesn’t go your way.

People understand that. There’s plenty of warning from friends, family, and gurus that you should brace yourself for it.

But what is less often discussed is that failure comes in two flavors:

  1. Failure that is excusable. (Could happen to anyone.)
  2. Failure that is inexcusable. (You really goofed.)

The first kind of failure is those that people will sympathize with and forgive you for. It’s something that’s totally out of your control or the kind of mistake that could have happened to anyone.

But the second kind of failure never has a good excuse. You simply didn’t do what you should have done, and there are consequences. There’s little sympathy to be found when you screw up absolutely.

Expect to encounter both on your way to ultimate success.

You won’t win them all. That’s part of life. But beyond that, if you’re trying to do something big, your habits, your personality, your work ethic, your temper–some part of who you are will cause trouble for you or for others.

When you’re fundamentally at fault, it can be painful to face up to it and change that part of who you are. But if you can tell the difference between the two flavors, you stand a better chance of avoiding burnout and solving problems, and you will grow as a person as well.

Image by B. K. Dewey.

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New Name, New Home

by Chuck Westbrook on March 30, 2009

Thanks to all of you who offered helpful and thoughtful comments here. I plan on engaging with each of you in the coming two weeks and discussing the ideas and suggestions you’ve offered.

Today, however, is moving day. From here on out, this blog will become a platform for my writing. You are, of course, welcome to stay subscribed to my feed.

The project has a new home. Head on over to Bloghiker.com to check it out!

I’ve wanted to move this project all along, so I’m glad to finally be able to do that. Thanks to all of you for the support and interest. I’ll see you on the other side of the move!

Image by macaroniandglue.

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Mission Failure and Changes Coming Monday

by Chuck Westbrook on March 27, 2009

For many reasons, the momentum around this project is gone.

The time has come to either pull the plug or re-evaluate and try again, doing some things differently. Next week, we’ll begin trying to figure out which it is going to be.

On Monday, I will be revealing a new domain, a new design, a logo, a name, and a tagline. For the next two weeks, I won’t be featuring a blogger. Instead, I am going to talk about the project itself–what worked, what didn’t, and some options for moving forward.

We’ll see where that conversation takes us. I look forward to figuring it out together.

-Chuck

PS Failures aren’t so bad. Especially when you set them to ragtime music.

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Introducing June Lin and her blog

by Chuck Westbrook on March 16, 2009

Hello world. I love Chuck’s mission to help under-appreciated blogs and am thrilled to be part of it!

1. Who are you?

I’m June. Currently a student at the University of Texas at Austin studying finance and operations engineering. I’m an Internet person. If I had to live anywhere, I would live in the Internet so that I can be connected to the thoughts and experiences of brilliant people. Instead of frat parties, I go to geek parties (LAN festivals, blogger parties, TweetUps, etc.). Actually, I don’t think I’ve ever been to a frat party in my life (and I go to the number 1 party school in the nation or something like that). We’re also supposed to be into something called football, but I’ve never been to a game either.

I am constantly doing things, have an incessant need to be busy, and can’t stay in one place. Right now, I’m “focused” on finishing my last year of school, working on a start-up, working at a wind energy company, and trolling for more shoes on the Internet. In my life, there’s not really a concept of work/life balance. I also love modern art and fashion; my favorite artist is Kandinsky and my favorite designer… that’s a hard one but, if I had to pick one, it would be Oscar De La Renta. You can read more about me here .

2. How would you describe your blog?

I write about a lot of random things like entrepreneurship, financial markets, strategy, school, food, shoes, and dresses. I guess you could integrate all of these things to describe it as a techie nerd’s musings on fashion and business. I don’t claim to know everything (or anything), but I make a genuine effort to share the knowledge I accumulate through my studies, workshops, and experiences.

Even though my blog is highly personalized (hello, it’s my name [dot] com), I sometimes pretend that future employers don’t read it and try to sort out random thoughts about my life. Right now I’m primarily focused on my startup, so I’m going to be blogging a lot about my thought process, what we learned, how it’s affected my life… so that I can later look back and laugh at myself. After all, I’m just a n00b.

3. Why do you blog?

In the beginning (like 6 years ago), I blogged to release my teenage angst upon the world and because all my friends were doing it.

I think I’ve matured since then, and now I blog to share information, expand my horizons (it forces me to do research about things I want to find out about), and encourage discussions. I’m very analytical, so my self improvement process involves reflecting on past ideas / situations / experiences, thinking about all the antecedents that attributed to the outcome, and trying to figure out how to improve next time. Blogging helps with that.

4. What blogs do you love?

I subscribe to a ton of blogs on my Google Reader, but my favorite ones are

  • Mixergy – I love hearing about other people’s ventures and adventures, and this is one of the best sources
  • Seth Godin’s blog – this man is genius.
  • Penelope Trunk’s blog – I love her candor and unconventional approach to things. Her story is also amazing.
  • Politicoholic – I love her attitude
  • Valleywag – A reminder that even smart people do dumb things (all the time).
  • DABA – Guilty pleasure; it’s like really bad reality TV: blog style.

5. What’s something interesting about you that has nothing to do with blogging?

I used to play World of Warcraft and do ballet. Weird combination, I know, but I’m eclectic like that.

6. Which 5 of your posts would you recommend for new readers to start with?

I’ll give you a taste of everything:

  1. Be the Change you Want Through the Power of Technology
  2. Recession: The Sound of Settling
  3. 10 Reasons Why You Should Blog
  4. New York Fashion week (part 1 , part 2)
  5. My IPOs [Used to] Bring all the Girls to the Yard

Please feel free to leave a comment because I am always learning and would love to get your feedback =)

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Introducing Miss Banshee and ‘Inverse Candlelight’

by Chuck Westbrook on March 2, 2009

For the next two weeks we’ll be reading ‘Inverse Candlelight‘ by Miss Banshee. Be sure to subscribe to her RSS, but don’t forget to visit first.

Ahoy Hoy, people! I was SO thrilled that Chuck asked me to be part of this here blog, so let’s find out about the enigma, I mean, the mystery, I mean the goofball freakshow that is Miss Banshee, shall we? Oh, and did I mention that your ass looks great today? Are those new pants? Cause seriously, your ass? Spectacular.

1. Who are you?

I’m Miss Banshee. I am a writer and rabid squirrel from the great state of New Jersey, and I am here to entertain you. I don’t like long walks on the beach, but I DO like bad television, making fun of my family, and big black boots. I am always open to gifts of big boxes of money, suitcases full of diamonds, and most importantly, new readers of my blog.

2. How would you describe your blog?

I’d describe my blog as the workings of my brain, for better or for worse. It’s funny, except when it’s not. Sometimes I write actual conversations I’ve had with various people and inanimate objects, and they’re all true, except for the parts I make up. Sometimes I talk about my cats, but not in a schmoopy way, don’t worry. More in a “why do you torture me every second of your life?” kind of way. Sometimes my grammar is atrocious, which is why my dad doesn’t read it. Thanks, dad!

3. Why do you blog?

I blog because I have too much in my brain. I need to let it be FREE, man! I started way back in the Diary X days, right after the dinosaurs, because I was wicked bored at work. Then Diary X went away, POOF! and all my writing went with it. I was so pissed! So I hopped on LiveJournal, then Blogger, then Wordpress, and then Typepad, and suddenly, through all my manic jumping around, I had a blog! And that was neat.

4. What blogs do you love?

My favorite blogs? WELL. obviously, MamaPop would be #1, because all the people who write for it are incredibly talented and v.v. good looking, and of course, I am one of those writers. You’d be a very smart and also good looking person if you followed all the writers there, because I will get fired if you don’t.

5. What’s something interesting about you that has nothing to do with blogging?

I blog about EVERYTHING, so that’s a little tough. I’m bipolar, and also in recovery from alcoholism. That’s where the not-so-funny posts come from, unless I’m talking about rehab, which was HILARIOUS. Oh! I’m single, and I don’t really blog about that, because it makes me sound desperate, doesn’t it? Maybe if I go on some really bad dates I’ll blog about it. Oh, who am I kidding, of COURSE I’ll blog about it. What else…Well, I was once felt up by Keith Richards, that’s pretty cool, right? Right.

6. Which 5 of your posts would you recommend for new readers to start with?

  1. A Love Letter To My Wireless Tech Support Dude
  2. Where The Hell Is My Boom Box When I Need It?
  3. An Actual Conversation About My Neck
  4. Mourning The Monster
  5. Lulu Returns To School You In The Ways of The Lulu

And that’s it! Hope to see you over at Inverse Candlelight. We have cookies!

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